Hero

You don’t need a hero.
You are the hero.

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The beach life

Goooooooooooooooood, I love summer. Make sure to follow me on Instagram at luna.theblog

You are a survivor

In my post “The story behind the name Luna” I shared a part of my story about domestic abuse. It actually gave me courage to dive deeper into this problem and open up about it here because I think this is a great community to share such stories and help each other. It took me years to speak about the torment my father put me through and I can relate to many children who were abused and today I want to write a little bit about how to deal with abuse after it’s done.

When I was 11,12 years old the problem with my father started solving and it wasn’t over until a few months ago. I haven’t lived with him for years and I last saw him and spoke to him about 5 years ago. That chapter of my life is over now but it still takes me a great amount of strength to close that chapter in my head. My problem was that I identified myself with what he has done to me and I believe that’s the problem of many abused children out there. We develop a bad opinion about ourselves based on what the person who abused us had done to us. We often feel like we aren’t worthy of anything, become introverted, depressed, scared to live the lives we deserve and we can’t step out of our pasts. Going through abuse leaves a strong scar on the one’s personality, sometimes even on our bodies and I will be quite honest and say it’s impossible to hide that scar or erase it so wear it proudly!

Don’t be ashamed of yourself and of who you are and of what you’ve been through. Instead of waking up every morning feeling like you are worth less than others, feeling like you will never reach happiness, wake up and say to yourself “I’ve been through hell and I survived that. World, bring it on because I can handle you!”. Don’t call yourself an abuse victim but rather call yourself a survivor because that’s what you are. Your body and mind were strong enough to handle the weight of abuse and I know how heavy that weight is and you are still here. You are biting and scratching your way through life. You know how to handle difficult situations and your power can never be drained out. Even when depression hits and you feel worn out just repeat those words to yourself.

Who you are depends only on what you want to be so be a survivor, be a warrior and show the world there’s happiness after abuse. Learn how to show your scars to the world and demand respect for them and respect your own past because if it wasn’t for it you wouldn’t be the strong person you are. Even if you feel weak, trust me you’re not. Shift your state of mind and you will turn your life around. Remember: You are a warrior, you are a survivor.

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Raging fury

There’s a storm outside but the
thunder and the lightnings don’t even
come close to the raging fury you
created inside of my soul.

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Karma is female

She will find her way back to happiness,
her heart didn’t lose the ability to love
just because you decided to shatter it.
You will be left alone after what you did to her
because not only is karma a bitch, she is also
a female and she won’t let you hurt another
one of her own kind.

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I left my heart

I followed my heart and it led me to you.
When things took turn for the worse my
brain took control over me. It left my heart to rot
in your hands and I ran away. I don’t know why I
still regret it.

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Him in mind

If you think it through you don’t actually want
to let it go and move on. If you do that you’ll stop
reliving the moments with him, feeling that high
you had, you’ll stop hurting for him and you’ll
lose the feeling that he’s still by your side. By not letting go
you’re killing yourself but at least you’re doing it with him in mind.

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